There are so many positive stories about how to be successful on online dating. Here are a couple of secrets from those who have found love online. People who have found love online have two things in common Clarity and Belief.
Clarity is such an important aspect of online and offline dating.
Being authentic about who you are and what you are looking for in a partner, helps you to limit your options to people who match you on a number of levels.
What are your life goals and dreams?
Being clear about your life goals helps you match with someone who aligns to your expectation and outlook on life.
Your expectations will be visible in your personality so it will be a little hard to hide if you approach this from a place of honesty.
What type of person are you?
Are you a world changer; do you seek to inspire others; do you aspire in your career or perhaps travel plans. Finding someone who aligns to your view of the world will help you reach your goals by supporting you rather than running interference.
What do you stand for?
Understanding your values will help you find a partner whose vibration is similar to yours. A relationship where you have to compromise your values and integrity is doomed to fail. You will find it difficult to agree on what is important to you as a couple.
These types of relationships are also painful as you will feel that you can’t really be true to yourself. So be sure on what your top 5 values are and seek a partner who aligns with them.
What are your relationship expectations?
Have clarity around your relationship expectations and communicate these clearly in your online profile. By being really clear about your relationship expectations will help you find a partner who is seeking something similar.
The children question is a big one and it is very personal to people, do you see marriage in your future. Be clear and communicate these to any likely suitors.
Getting clear about your life goals, values and relationship expectations will enable you to write an online profile which really speaks to who you are. Being clear and honest about who you are will attract someone who is looking for you.
Don’t worry about scaring people off, if they don’t align to your expectations of the world then don’t waste your time with the wrong people.
Trying online dating and have limiting beliefs about being able to meet someone really defeats the purpose. Belief is one of the most important things in life. It’s what gets us out of bed everyday.
So resolve your limiting beliefs that you may have and align with the possibility that your soul mate is waiting for you. With clarity and believing it is possible you can find your soul mate, and be successful online dating. It will be a great step forward in raising your vibration for love.